Are Your Child Custody Demands Hurting Your Child?

The most prophetic things any judge ever said to me about custody was “do you hate the other person more than you love your child? If so, you will do anything that hurts him/her.”  Consider: are your negative feelings towards the other parent greater than your love for your child? Many people come into my […]

5 Important Things to Know BEFORE Tying the Knot

Wedding season is upon us.  So instead of discussing issues that arise when there is marital discord, I thought I would take a moment to talk about issues that should be considered before you get married. Marriage is a social and financial contract for which the law provides certain benefits and burdens.  Before you make […]

Expanding Our Services with Divorce Mediation

Mediation. Many of you have heard of it. Some of you may have experienced it. In this article, I will discuss what mediation is, what it is not, and the positives and negatives of mediation in the context of a matrimonial or family law matter. What is mediation? Mediation is an alternative method to resolving […]

An Alternative Solution to “Dissolution”

When I tell people that I practice matrimonial law, they often think that the only thing I do is help people get divorced. While a large part of our practice does involve representing spouses in divorce proceedings, our practice also encompasses helping married clients who want to stay that way. Sometimes spouses have differences that […]

50/50 DOES NOT EQUAL $0/$0

In recent months, I have had consultations with several clients who told me that they were seeking equal physical custody of the children.  While the well-being of the children is often the motivation behind the client’s desire for equal physical custody, sometimes the client tells me upfront that she wants equal custody of the children […]

Facebook Can Impact Your Divorce!

I recently read an article that said one-third of divorces are caused by Facebook!  I found this hard to believe. First, how do you measure something as complicated as the demise of a marriage and attribute it to one thing? Second, Mark Zuckerberg isn’t walking into anyone’s home and making them do anything that they […]